Who holds our remote control??

Hello Friends,


Once I was reading a book and I came through a very beautiful fact..So thought of sharing with you all..

Very often we get disturbed by someone’s comment or someone’s actions.. If someone says something good about us we feel extremely happy but if he says something bad we get disturbed…its instantaneous.. it’s a human nature..at times it has such a major impact on us... we get so much disturbed that everything gets affected... it takes much of time to come out of it..at times our reactions are so spontaneous and harsh that we regret afterwards...I have also faced a number of such situations in my life..

Doesnt it sounds like someone else is having the remote control of our mind..he/she changes our mood with the help of their words and actions..its so easy for them to control us..

We are most affected by those persons to whom we strongly like or dislike..If we like a person and he says us something its easy to come out of it...But someone to whom we strongly dislike affects us much more in comparison to former..

We never realized we had given so much of powers in others hand..At home we always fight for the Remote control of TV with our siblings and the one who owns it rules over the TV..

So how come we can give our mind remote control in someone else's hand atleast to that person for whom we hardly care...Getting affected by a person means we give so much importance to that person and his actions..and one thing is for sure we never wanna give importance to the person to whom we dislike or we hardly care... So if we realise this fact we can control our reactions and save us from getting hurt..

This fact has really helped me a lot in overcoming a number of situations in my life..I used to be very emotional but now I know who controls of my REMOTE CONTROL.. :)

What about you guys...???